The young person’s brain has been permanently etched with the image of something that God created for a holy, priceless union between a husband and a wife as something painful, filthy, and shameful. After that, they wed the man or woman of their dreams. These two are deeply in love. They want to have sex with this person, but something unexpected occurs when their sexual desire is piqued. Their desire is stifled, and they turn away from their spouse’s tender touches due to their ingrained feelings of shame, disgust, and guilt. Or, even though your spouse is a safe person, sexual arousal might make you feel afraid and helpless if the abuse was violent.