It's common to experience fear during postpartum sex. After all, the parties concerned have just experienced a fairly traumatic situation. So, begin gradually. Every so often, give each other a long kiss. Cuddle. Wrestling Do physical activities that you both genuinely enjoy rather than activities that are intercourse- and orgasm-focused, suggests Terrell. (Once you're ready for actual sex, use protection if necessary; it's possible to become pregnant again immediately.)