The seven most typical sexual fantasies and how to deal with them To start, let's acknowledge that everyone has sexual fantasies. Yes, everyone in the human race occasionally lets their thoughts wander to the dark side. No matter what the fantasy is, it's completely normal, says certified sex coach Gigi Engle, author of "All The F*cking Mistakes: A Guide to Sex, Love, and Life," despite the fact that many people feel ashamed of their turn ons and erotic thoughts. The more we discuss sexual fantasy and make it a normal topic of conversation, the less we'll criticize ourselves for having twisty, sexual, and steamy thoughts, according to her. We created this fantastic crib sheet as a result. To find out what we're all dreaming about in our dirty dreams and how to act them out in real life, keep reading. There are seven main categories, even though there are countless possibilities.